In body safe, we learned about safe sex and how to properly consent. body safe was run by Eliza, mimu Lloyd elasie and laura they came into our class every Monday and Tuesday for the whole leson (50 mins) It was good how we learned about how to consent becasue alot of people actually don't know how to consent properly and fully. If someone asked me about body safe I would say that It is a fun way to learn with young people like us about how to consent.
1. zoning out- is when we can go to the back of the books we were given and draw and kind of "zone out" of the lesson if we felt uncomfortable or upset
2. enthusiastic yes- an enthusiastic yes is when you consent and say yes very enthusiastically because you want to have sex. so you say yes very enthusiastically
3. ground rules-
one person talking at a time to be respectful
respectful comments only
you can zone out if you are finding it difficult
check with your teacher for other options to this class
have a chat with us after class for info
remember everyone has the right to positive and respectful sexual experiences
(copied from the book)
4. 4 steps to consent-
ask. ask if the person wants to have sex and make sure it is respectful and sounds respectful
listen. listen- to the person's answer and if they say yes make sure it's enthusiastic yes. if it's no
respect- respect their answer. if they don't want to then be respectful about there answer don't get mad at them
reflect- reflecting on what happened with the person, seeing if you both liked and enjoyed about it and what you can do next time to improve
respect- respect their answer. if they don't want to then be respectful about there answer don't get mad at them
reflect- reflecting on what happened with the person, seeing if you both liked and enjoyed about it and what you can do next time to improve
